For almost a year, I measured my daughter\u2019s life in treatments and test results. On her seventh birthday, I thought my only job was making one hospital day feel special. By the end of it, I realized Alice had been waiting for something I was terrified to give her.<\/p>\n
My daughter was already crying when Superman knelt beside her hospital bed and told her there was another surprise.<\/p>\n
I was crying too.<\/p>\n
Around us stood Wonder Woman, Batman, Spider-Man, and Captain America. Under the masks were doctors and nurses who had spent almost a year treating my seven-year-old daughter for cancer.<\/p>\n
My daughter was already crying when Superman knelt beside her.<\/p>\n
Alice wiped her cheeks and looked at me.<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm rested one hand on the edge of her bed.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere\u2019s one part of today your mom doesn\u2019t know about either.\u201d<\/p>\n
Everyone in that room seemed to know there was more coming except me.<\/p>\n
My fingers tightened around the bedrail.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat part? What\u2019s happening? Is Alice okay?\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice wiped her cheeks and looked at me.<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm\u2019s expression softened.<\/p>\n
And suddenly the costumes didn\u2019t matter anymore.<\/p>\n
Because whatever came next had nothing to do with Alice\u2019s birthday party.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Three hours earlier, I\u2019d been trying to convince myself that spending her seventh birthday in the hospital didn\u2019t have to feel like another thing cancer had stolen.<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm\u2019s expression softened.<\/p>\n
Alice had been fighting leukemia for almost a year.<\/p>\n
There had been chemo, needles, nausea, blood tests, and days when sitting up took more energy than she wanted anyone to see.<\/p>\n
Somehow, she was still the kid who was obsessed with making everyone else smile.<\/p>\n
Her other obsession was superheroes.<\/p>\n
She kept a row of little figures beside her bed and chose one before every treatment.<\/p>\n
Alice had been fighting leukemia for almost a year.<\/p>\n
\u201cChemo buddy,\u201d she\u2019d announce.<\/p>\n
That morning, Spider-Man was clipped to her IV pole.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d hung paper stars around the room and brought a small cake.<\/p>\n
Alice looked at the decorations, then at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou did too much.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s your birthday.\u201d<\/p>\n
Spider-Man was clipped to her IV pole.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou said that about Christmas and brought candy canes for everyone, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou only turn seven once.\u201d<\/p>\n
She smiled, but a moment later, she stared at the birthday balloon above her bed.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo you think I\u2019ll have my eighth birthday here too?\u201d<\/p>\n
My hand went straight to her blanket.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou only turn seven once.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cLet\u2019s get through seven first.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice nodded too easily.<\/p>\n
Before she got sick, she\u2019d complained about being tired.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d blamed school.<\/p>\n
Then bruises appeared.<\/p>\n
Alice nodded too easily.<\/p>\n
I blamed the playground.<\/p>\n
Nothing had looked terrifying until suddenly all of it did.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d never forgiven myself for missing the beginning.<\/p>\n
So now I noticed everything.<\/p>\n
If Alice rubbed her eyes, I noticed.<\/p>\n
If she ate less, I noticed.<\/p>\n
I blamed the playground.<\/p>\n
If she got quiet, I noticed.<\/p>\n
I had turned watching her into a full-time job.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
That morning, a nurse brought in a giant birthday card from Alice\u2019s class.<\/p>\n
It was covered in stickers, hearts, superhero drawings, and names written in every color.<\/p>\n
Alice read every one.<\/p>\n
So did I.<\/p>\n
One name was missing.<\/p>\n
I had turned watching her into a full-time job.<\/p>\n
Sophie.<\/p>\n
Before treatment, Sophie had practically lived at our house. She and Alice argued about movies, dinosaurs, and which superhero was strongest.<\/p>\n
Alice checked the card again.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaybe she forgot.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe wouldn\u2019t forget your birthday.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice shrugged.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaybe she forgot.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve missed almost a whole year of school, Mom. It\u2019s okay if Sophie has other friends.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI could ask your teacher.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyes snapped toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cPlease don\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019d only ask if everything\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t want you to.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI could ask your teacher.\u201d<\/p>\n
I nodded.<\/p>\n
\u201cAll right.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then, while Alice watched television, I sent the message anyway.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs everything okay between the girls? Alice noticed Sophie didn\u2019t sign her card.\u201d<\/p>\n
At the time, I told myself I was helping.<\/p>\n
I sent the message anyway.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Later that morning, Dr. Malcolm came in.<\/p>\n
He\u2019d treated Alice for most of the year. I trusted him because he never spoke around her as if she weren\u2019t there.<\/p>\n
He checked on her, asked how she felt, then looked at her superhero figures.<\/p>\n
\u201cWho\u2019s working today?\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice pointed at Spider-Man.<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm came in.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe\u2019s my chemo buddy today.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGood choice.\u201d<\/p>\n
Then Dr. Malcolm looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cI need to step out for a few minutes.\u201d<\/p>\n
I straightened.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs something wrong?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe\u2019s my chemo buddy today.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo, Maggie. Not at all.\u201d<\/p>\n
I watched him leave, feeling my heart sink.<\/p>\n
Alice noticed.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re doing the face.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat face?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThe one where you\u2019re waiting for something bad.\u201d<\/p>\n
Before I could answer, the door opened.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re doing the face.\u201d<\/p>\n
Superman walked in.<\/p>\n
Alice froze.<\/p>\n
Then Wonder Woman appeared behind him, followed by Batman, Spider-Man, and Captain America.<\/p>\n
One after another, doctors and nurses Alice knew came into the room dressed as the heroes she\u2019d spent months lining up beside her bed.<\/p>\n
Alice stared for three full seconds.<\/p>\n
Superman walked in.<\/p>\n
Then she shouted, \u201cNo way!\u201d<\/p>\n
Everyone laughed.<\/p>\n
Alice started laughing too.<\/p>\n
Then she cried.<\/p>\n
She pointed at Batman.<\/p>\n
\u201cI recognize you! I know who you are, Batman!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo way!\u201d<\/p>\n
Batman adjusted his mask.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou have no proof.\u201d<\/p>\n
That made her laugh harder.<\/p>\n
I reached for my phone automatically.<\/p>\n
Then I stopped.<\/p>\n
For months, I\u2019d photographed everything because part of me was terrified I\u2019d forget.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou have no proof.\u201d<\/p>\n
That morning, I lowered it.<\/p>\n
I wanted to see my daughter without a screen between us.<\/p>\n
Then Dr. Malcolm, dressed as Superman, walked over and knelt beside her.<\/p>\n
\u201cThere\u2019s one part of today your mom doesn\u2019t know about either.\u201d<\/p>\n
We were back at the moment that had made my stomach tighten.<\/p>\n
I wanted to see my daughter.<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe results we were waiting for came in this morning.\u201d<\/p>\n
I gripped the bedrail.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey\u2019re encouraging, Alice. Maggie, they\u2019re looking good.\u201d<\/p>\n
Hope rose too quickly.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaggie, they\u2019re looking good.\u201d<\/p>\n
He continued before I could misunderstand.<\/p>\n
\u201cTreatment isn\u2019t over. Alice will still need medication, blood work, appointments, and monitoring. But we\u2019re comfortable moving her into the next, less intensive phase we\u2019ve been working toward.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice looked between us.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs that good, Mom?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s very good.\u201d<\/p>\n
She smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cTreatment isn\u2019t over.\u201d<\/p>\n
I started crying again.<\/p>\n
Then someone handed Dr. Malcolm a backpack.<\/p>\n
It was bright blue, covered in fabric-marker stars, superhero symbols, and messages from Alice\u2019s classmates.<\/p>\n
Alice sat straighter.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs that for me?\u201d<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm smiled.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs that for me?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYour class sent it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Inside was a note.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhenever you\u2019re ready, your seat is waiting.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice read it twice.<\/p>\n
Then she looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cSchool?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYour class sent it.\u201d<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm nodded.<\/p>\n
\u201cNot tomorrow. Not all day at first. And not without a plan. But yes. We can start talking about getting you back there. When you\u2019re ready, we\u2019ll make sure the school has the medical guidance it needs.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice turned toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her whole face lit up.<\/p>\n
Mine must not have because her smile faded.<\/p>\n
Dr. Malcolm nodded.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
On the drive home, she talked almost nonstop.<\/p>\n
Was the class hamster still alive?<\/p>\n
Would she have the same cubby?<\/p>\n
Could she go to recess?<\/p>\n
Eventually, she stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou don\u2019t want me to go.\u201d<\/p>\n
She talked almost nonstop.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s not what I said.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou haven\u2019t said anything.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe need to plan it properly, honey.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes that mean yes?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt means we need to talk to everyone first.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice turned toward the window.<\/p>\n
\u201cDoes that mean yes?\u201d<\/p>\n
Even at seven, she understood.<\/p>\n
I wasn\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
The next week, I arranged a meeting with her teacher and the school nurse.<\/p>\n
I brought three pages of questions.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat happens if another child comes in sick?\u201d<\/p>\n
I wasn\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019ll follow the precautions her care team recommends.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if she gets tired?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe can rest or leave early.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if she needs medicine?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019ll have the correct plan.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if somebody knocks into her?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if she gets tired?\u201d<\/p>\n
Her teacher paused.<\/p>\n
\u201cMaggie, children do bump into each other.\u201d<\/p>\n
Exactly.<\/p>\n
Children bumped, sneezed, forgot to wash their hands, and went from fine to feverish in an afternoon.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d spent almost a year learning how dangerous normal could look.<\/p>\n
During the meeting, another parent came in to drop off paperwork.<\/p>\n
Her teacher paused.<\/p>\n
She heard Alice\u2019s name.<\/p>\n
\u201cOh. Is she coming back?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cGradually,\u201d the teacher said.<\/p>\n
The woman hesitated.<\/p>\n
\u201cIs she safe to be around the other kids?\u201d<\/p>\n
My chair scraped the floor.<\/p>\n
She heard Alice\u2019s name.<\/p>\n
The nurse answered before I could.<\/p>\n
\u201cCancer isn\u2019t contagious.\u201d<\/p>\n
The woman flushed.<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t mean it like that.\u201d<\/p>\n
Maybe she didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
But Alice had been waiting nearby with my mother and heard enough.<\/p>\n
\u201cCancer isn\u2019t contagious.\u201d<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Later, she asked, \u201cDoes she think I can give people cancer?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cShe doesn\u2019t understand.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEverybody\u2019s going to look at me differently.\u201d<\/p>\n
And before I could stop myself, I said, \u201cThen maybe we wait.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice stared at me.<\/p>\n
I heard myself too late.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe doesn\u2019t understand.\u201d<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Two days later, Sophie and her mother came over.<\/p>\n
The second Alice saw them, she looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou told.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI asked your teacher a question.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI asked you not to, Mom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou told.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI was trying to help.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t ask you to.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou were hurt.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYeah.\u201d Her voice went quiet. \u201cAnd it was mine.\u201d<\/p>\n
That stopped me.<\/p>\n
Sophie stood near the couch until Alice finally asked why she hadn\u2019t signed the card.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou were hurt.\u201d<\/p>\n
Sophie stared at her shoes.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy mom kept telling me not to talk about cancer unless you wanted to.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t want to talk about cancer.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t know what else we had to talk about.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice frowned.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe had dinosaurs.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t want to talk about cancer.\u201d<\/p>\n
Sophie finally looked up.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou still think a shark beats a T. rex?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cObviously.\u201d<\/p>\n
Within minutes, they were arguing like they used to.<\/p>\n
I stood in the kitchen and listened.<\/p>\n
Alice had handled the thing I\u2019d tried to handle for her, and she\u2019d done it better.<\/p>\n
\u201cObviously.\u201d<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
A few weeks later, after her care team agreed, we tried a short classroom visit.<\/p>\n
I packed water, medication, emergency information, snacks, extra clothes, wipes, and the hospital bag.<\/p>\n
Alice watched me loading everything.<\/p>\n
\u201cHow long are we staying?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAn hour or two.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked at the bags.<\/p>\n
\u201cHow long are we staying?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt looks like three weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
At school, I watched her constantly.<\/p>\n
Eventually, she leaned toward me.<\/p>\n
\u201cCan you stop looking at me?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m checking on you.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cEvery minute?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m checking on you.\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re watching me breathe.\u201d<\/p>\n
That almost sounded ridiculous.<\/p>\n
Then I saw her face.<\/p>\n
She meant it.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
An hour later, Alice went quiet.<\/p>\n
Her color had faded.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019re leaving.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m okay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re exhausted.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI am tired, Mom. But I\u2019m not dying.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019re leaving.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked straight at me.<\/p>\n
The room seemed to shrink.<\/p>\n
Alice looked sorry immediately.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t make her apologize.<\/p>\n
I just took her home.<\/p>\n
She looked straight at me.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
At her next appointment, I told Dr. Malcolm everything.<\/p>\n
The fatigue.<\/p>\n
The paleness.<\/p>\n
How quickly her energy disappeared.<\/p>\n
He examined her and reminded me what symptoms should make me call.<\/p>\n
Then I asked, \u201cSo you\u2019d let her go back?\u201d<\/p>\n
I told Dr. Malcolm everything.<\/p>\n
\u201cI can tell you what her body can safely attempt.\u201d<\/p>\n
I waited.<\/p>\n
\u201cI can\u2019t tell you how much fear you\u2019re supposed to feel while she does it.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked away.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s going to have limits for a while,\u201d he added. \u201cHaving limits isn\u2019t the same as having no life.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked away.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
That night, Alice fell asleep with a notebook beside her.<\/p>\n
I was repacking the hospital bag when it slid onto the floor.<\/p>\n
It fell open.<\/p>\n
Across the top, she\u2019d written:<\/p>\n
\u201cTHINGS I WANT TO DO WHEN MOM STOPS BEING SCARED\u201d<\/p>\n
Ride the bus.
\nGo to recess.
\nSleep at Grandma\u2019s.
\nEat cake without Mom asking if my stomach hurts.
\nHave messy hair in my school picture.
\nStop everybody whispering when they think I\u2019m asleep.
\nIt fell open.<\/p>\n
Then the last one:<\/p>\n
Make Mom laugh without checking if she really means it.
\nI sat on the floor.<\/p>\n
For almost a year, I\u2019d watched everything about Alice. I\u2019d never realized she was watching me too.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
The next morning, guilt made me move too fast.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou can go back to school.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice stopped eating.<\/p>\n
I sat on the floor.<\/p>\n
\u201cToday?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo. We\u2019ll plan it. And it will be soon, okay, honey?\u201d<\/p>\n
Her eyes narrowed.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou read my notebook.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt fell open, Alice.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cBut you read it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI saw the page.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou read my notebook.\u201d<\/p>\n
She pushed her bowl away.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou always fix stuff I didn\u2019t ask you to fix.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m your mother.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked down.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s why I wish you\u2019d just be my mom sometimes.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m your mother.\u201d<\/p>\n
I wanted to explain why I watched, why I packed, and why I checked.<\/p>\n
Instead, I let the silence stay.<\/p>\n
Later, I sat beside her.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat do you want your first day to look like?\u201d<\/p>\n
She studied me.<\/p>\n
\u201cA half day. No big welcome thing.\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat beside her.<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo telling everyone to be gentle with me.\u201d<\/p>\n
I swallowed.<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd you\u2019re not standing outside my classroom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay, honey. We can do that.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
The night before her first half day, Alice complained of a headache.<\/p>\n
Every alarm inside me went off.<\/p>\n
I checked her temperature, followed the guidance we\u2019d been given, and contacted her care team when appropriate instead of inventing new rules from fear.<\/p>\n
Nothing suggested an emergency.<\/p>\n
By morning, she felt better.<\/p>\n
Alice complained of a headache.<\/p>\n
Still, I put the hospital bag in the trunk.<\/p>\n
Then I stood there, staring at it.<\/p>\n
That bag had followed us for almost a year.<\/p>\n
It meant preparedness, control, the belief that if I packed enough, checked enough, and watched enough, nothing could surprise me again.<\/p>\n
I lifted it back out.<\/p>\n
Then I stood there.<\/p>\n
Her necessary medicine and medical information stayed with us.<\/p>\n
The overnight bag stayed home.<\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
At school, Alice stopped at the entrance and grabbed my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if everybody looks at me?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey might, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat if it\u2019s weird?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThey might, sweetheart.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt probably will be.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked up at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd if you hate it, we\u2019ll figure out tomorrow.\u201d<\/p>\n
She stayed beside me another second.<\/p>\n
She squeezed my hand for a moment, and then she let go.<\/p>\n
Alice walked inside without me.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt probably will be.\u201d<\/p>\n
And I left, actually left.<\/p>\n
At home, the hospital bag sat beside the door.<\/p>\n
I made coffee.<\/p>\n
It went cold while I checked the time.<\/p>\n
I arrived for pickup 50 minutes early.<\/p>\n
Alice came out beside Sophie.<\/p>\n
And I left, actually left.<\/p>\n
Her hair was messy.<\/p>\n
Her backpack hung crookedly over one shoulder.<\/p>\n
She looked tired.<\/p>\n
She also looked happy.<\/p>\n
My eyes immediately searched her face.<\/p>\n
Alice caught me.<\/p>\n
She looked tired.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re doing it.\u201d<\/p>\n
I stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe hospital face?\u201d<\/p>\n
She nodded.<\/p>\n
\u201cSorry.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s okay.\u201d<\/p>\n
She thought for a moment.<\/p>\n
\u201cI did the school face today.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re doing it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat does that look like?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cLike I\u2019m not scared even when I am.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked toward my car.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou were here early, weren\u2019t you?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cForty-three minutes.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou were here early, weren\u2019t you?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFine. Fifty.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice laughed.<\/p>\n
I reached for her backpack.<\/p>\n
She pulled it closer.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019ve got it.\u201d<\/p>\n
My first instinct was to tell her it looked heavy.<\/p>\n
I reached for her backpack.<\/p>\n
My second was to take it anyway.<\/p>\n
Instead, I lowered my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n
Alice adjusted the strap herself and started toward the car.<\/p>\n
I walked beside her.<\/p>\n
And Alice carried her own backpack.<\/p>\n
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